Feeling stuck even when everything looks right?

You're not imagining it—and you're not alone

Stop living the life others chose for you. Start living the one that's actually yours.

I help people who feel stuck or disconnected reconnect with who they really are, get clear on what they actually want, and build lives that feel authentic and fulfilling—through personalized coaching, transformative experiences, and supportive community.

Ready to stop performing and start living? Let’s chat:

You're allowed to want what you want, even if it doesn't make sense to others

Something feels off, even when everything "should" be working. It’s real even if it feels hard to name. See if any of these feel familiar:

  • It all begins with an idea. Maybe you want to launch a business. Maybe you want to turn a hobby into something more. Or maybe you have a creative project to share with the world. Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.

    "I should be happy, so why do I feel so empty?"

  • You show up for everyone else but can't remember the last time you asked what YOU want. Your needs get buried under everyone else's expectations, and you've lost touch with your own voice. 

    "What would happen if I stopped putting myself last?"

  • You know you're capable of more but feel trapped between your current reality and what's possible. You know it's 'not this'—but you haven't said so out loud. 

    "I'm meant for something bigger, but I don't know what or how."

  • You're facing a decision or transition and feel paralyzed by options. This is a decision everyone expects you to have figured out—but you're not even sure what you want. 

    "Which path is actually mine?"

  • You're moving through a life that looks good on paper, but doesn't feel like yours. You're ready to stop sleepwalking and start choosing—but you need help figuring out what to choose. 

    "How did I get here, and how do I get somewhere that feels more... me?"

You don't have to burn it all down. But you do have to stop pretending you’re fine.

I’ve been there too...

Certified Co-Active Coach
Human-centered Learning Expert
Ignite the Spark Leader

I spent years doing what I thought I "should"—worked hard, shifted career paths, climbed the corporate ladder, checked boxes I was supposed to care about, tried to fix what felt broken on the surface. But I still felt stuck and unfulfilled, like I was living someone else's version of success.

Everything changed when I stopped trying to become someone else and started getting curious about who I already was.

Through leading corporate development teams, becoming a certified Co-Active coach, launching my own practice, and even experiencing the same Ignite the Spark program I now lead, I discovered something powerful:

The more clear you are on who you are and what you want, the more confident and purposeful your life becomes.

Here's what I believe:

  • You deserve to live your dreams—even if they surprise people

  • You deserve someone who believes in your potential unconditionally

  • You're not broken or behind—you're just ready for something more authentic

What makes me different? I bring balance, inspiration, and safety to this work. That means you get a rare space to be completely honest, take real risks, and flourish in ways you never imagined.

Certifications and Professional Memberships

Here’s How I Help People Just Like You

Explore what StackRise has to offer and choose a path that fits where you are right now.

Deeply personal, tailored support that honors your whole self and creates space for authentic growth in a safe creative environment

1:1 Coaching

  • Perfect for: Anyone ready to stop living on autopilot and start making intentional choices

    You'll get:

    • A dedicated space to be completely honest about where you are and who you're becoming

    • A partner who approaches you with curiosity (not judgment) and explores with you rather than explaining to you

    • Support to reconnect with your authentic self and create genuine fulfillment

    • The freedom to be at choice in your life, with tools to stay present to what matters most

    • Practical frameworks and accountability to bridge the gap between where you are and where you want to be

    Time commitment: 3-6 months, bi-weekly sessions

A transformative group experience rooted in psychology and neuroscience, with deep
human connection

Ignite the Spark

  • Perfect for: People who want structured transformation with the power of community connection

    You'll get:

    • A proven 8-week experience that's been tested with hundreds of participants over 25+ years

    • Small-group sessions (3-8 people) that create deep, meaningful relationships

    • Tools and frameworks to discover who you are at your best AND how to apply that knowledge

    • Clear direction on what you want and practical steps to get there

    • Access to a growing, supportive community of alumni and ongoing connection opportunities

    Time commitment: 8 weeks, weekly small-group sessions + individual reflection

A podcast—hosted by Ryan and Vic Smith— offering approachable inspiration and real conversations about living intentionally

Go Coach Yourself!

  • Perfect for: Anyone who wants coaching insights without the commitment (yet!)

    You'll get:

    • Weekly doses of practical coaching tools you can try right away

    • Honest conversations that normalize the messy middle of growth

    • Stories and insights to help you feel less alone in your journey

    Time commitment: 20-30 minutes per week

What People Are Saying

  • Ryan listens and works to understand what is being said — this makes me feel comfortable and safe moving forward in our relationship.

    Nicole

  • If you're looking for a coach that genuinely cares about you as a human and can guide you to discover your own path to your personal version of "better," I wholeheartedly recommend Ryan. Working with him was one of the best career decisions I have ever made.

    Shannon

  • This was really authentic. Ryan’s style is committed and encourages vulnerability and trust — both essential for immediate impact.

    Kendyl

  • Ryan’s approach to coaching immediately puts you at ease and gives you space and grace to face what is holding you back to find a better way forward. He helped me remember what I uniquely bring to the work environment, to be kind to myself, and how I can bring out the best in others.

    Jennifer

  • Ryan led me through a really thoughtful discussion — I left knowing how to articulate what I didn’t have words for before.

    Lianna

  • Ryan provided a safe, non-judgemental space for reflection yet encouraging and challenging myself to question and explore learnings. He supported me in confirming what is important in my life and after every session I felt lighter. Grateful for the experience and definitely recommend him!

    Ana

You don’t have to have it all figured out to get started!

Stop wondering "What's wrong with me?" and start asking "What's right with me?"

The Clarity Starter Kit includes foundational exercises designed to help you cut through the noise and reconnect with your authentic self, clarify what truly matters to you, and start making choices that align with who you really are.

What's inside:

  • Success Patterns Introduction to identify when you're at your best

  • Values Clarification Worksheet, because knowing what matters makes decisions easier

  • Permission to Want journal prompts to reconnect with your authentic desires

  • Quick-start guide to begin living more intentionally

Enter your email to get the kit now—no pressure, no overwhelm, just practical tools to get you started.

Get Your Clarity Starter Kit Now

Ready to go reach new heights?

You're not lost. You're not behind. You're not broken.

You're just ready to stop living someone else's version of your life and start living your own.

Whether that means booking a coaching call, joining Ignite, or simply starting with the free kit—the most important step is the first one.

Questions? Get in touch or connect with me on LinkedIn.